Who is Running Your Life? Technology Addiction or YOU
Answer these questions? Can I stay focused on my work or am I easily distracted by my phone and/or social media? Am I accomplishing what I want to do or be? Can I be without my phone and social media for 5 minutes, 1 hour, 3 hours…? Do I have a life beyond my phone and social media? Do I feel comfortable having deep and meaningful conversations with friends and family in person or are we on our phones? Phone and social media addiction (addiction=something that controls you and you can’t-do without) is one of the most common blocks to millennial personal and professional...
Read MoreA Self-Care MegaStar-Learn How To Meditate
A client asked me how she could stop her mind activity when she meditated. I remember asking this question myself when I started meditating. After multiple attempts at quieting it, I started thinking I can’t meditate; I’m failing because I can’t get my mind to shut up or be still. My teachers didn’t explain to me how mediation works with the mind. Here is my answer to her: The mind chatter (called “monkey mind” by the Buddhist) is natural. The mind never quiets…its job is to be busy. Your job is not to put your attention on monkey mind/thoughts and find the space in between...
Read More30 Ingredients for a Healthy Relationship
Whether you’re single or married, knowing what a healthy relationship looks like is very useful in finding the right partner for you or spicing up your marriage. I recently gave a relationship workshop and handed out a list of what a healthy relationship could look like. I’ve found most of us want a great relationship, but we really don’t have any idea of what that looks like, other than a romantic Hollywood versions that is unattainable. When you start to have a clearer picture of what it truly takes to have a healthy and loving relationship, you now know where you need...
Read MoreHow “Good” Will You Allow Your Life To BE?
I’m not the same person I was 15 years ago, because I’ve allowed myself to have a good life. What about you, do you want a really good life? In order to create my good life, I had to change. When I decided to create a really good life, I was living a fear driven life. I didn’t feel supported, good enough, or perfect enough to matter even though I had family and friends who loved me. I buried my feminine (except in the bedroom) because the masculine felt more empowering. My sensitivity made me feel weak. These are just some of the feelings, beliefs and thoughts I had to...
Read MorePerfectionism – The Secret Killer Of Creativity and Wealth
What unrealistic expectations will do to your life and business success Entrepreneurs and perfectionism don’t mix. I am so passionate about the topic of perfectionism because I think it is a nasty disease that’s growing as fast as diabetes in the United States and undermining your creativity, success and wealth. Just like diabetes, it can go undetected until there are real (life and business) health problems. When you start thinking that you are broken, that something is wrong with you, that you have bad luck, are not good, smart or worthy enough to have success and live a...
Read MoreNot feeling Good Enough is a Lie
The Lies of not Feeling Good Enough Become your Reality Most of what you believe about yourself is complete bullshit. Yep! The thought of not feeling good enough is a complete lie that you made up at on time in your childhood. And until you see that and remove those thoughts, you will feed and nourish them as true. One limiting belief or lie can hold you back from being your authentic you, the successful, prosperous, happy, loved, loving, empowered, sexy, healthy person you should be. One of the biggest lies that’s devastating Millennials and billions of people is “I AM NOT ENOUGH.”...
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