Perfectionist Qualities Saved Us
Hi, I’m Marilyn O’Malley and I’m a perfectionist! It all started when I was four years old and my parents got in a big fight in front of me and I thought it was my fault for having too much fun. Shortly after the fight, my parents divorced and no one explained the disappearance of my father to me. Then my grandmother pulled my little four year old body close to her and looked sternly in my eyes and said, “you’d better be good for your mom or you could lose her too!” Holiest of crap! I became the good girl extraordinary instantly. Being young and...
Read MoreHow To Deal With A Narcissist
Hi! Did you grow up with a Narcissist Parent? This is a complicated relationship that influences you ability to to be yourself, to have needs and desires, and promotes the behavior of perfectionism. All of which keep you from shining your light, receiving what you need and deserve (includes money) and limits your actions with fears. Until we heal our inner child wounding with the narcissistic parent we will attract other narcissist unconsciously into our lives as friends, partners in business or as spouses because we naturally know how to take really good care of them. Our wounded...
Read MoreDo You KNOW How Powerful YOU Are?
The idea that you are alone living your life is so far from the truth and yet this limiting belief runs wild in many people’s minds afflicting them with painful feelings of boredom, abandonment, loneliness, powerlessness and shame. You are a sensitive, intuitive, genius and highly aware of energies and information around you… take time to tune into them and trust the information you receive. This is your own awakening. When you are not aware of your energy and the energy around you, you have gone unconscious. I KNOW even though you may frequently go unconscious and forget who you...
Read MoreTap Away Your Doubts & Fears!
You know when you are making changes in your life and it is feeling really good and then all of a sudden doubt and fears punch you in the stomach, back or chest? ~ Your critical and disappointed voice starts questioning everything you are doing and dreaming. ~ People around you share their unsolicited opinions of why they wouldn’t go where you going. ~ Your ego starts bringing up past experiences and why you promised you wouldn’t put yourself out there again. ~ Your excitement starts to dwindle as you start to self-sabotage your progress. This tapping session is to...
Read MoreMillennials & Money Cafe Starting
When I started using Margaret Lynch’s, Tapping Into Wealth Money Map on myself and my millennial clients I was shocked to see and witness how much our childhood programming influenced our self-esteem and our current financial situation. And I was excited that I had tools to change that negative programming and transform the depressing or harmful results they caused. Our negative thoughts and unworthy feelings about ourselves are tied up with money? What? How could this be? It blew me away to see how much unnecessary suffering was impacting us through our families negative beliefs and...
Read MoreHave You Been Hurt By A Narcissistic Parent?
Having a narcissist parent is one of the most challenging and damaging relationships for a child. It diminishes a child’s self esteem, ability to trust themselves and others, and creates anxiety because they don’t feel safe at their core. It is a very confusing relationship. Not everyone knows what a narcissistic personality is like, so I thought I’d share the toxic results of this relationship and how to deal with one if you have one in your life. Narcissist are dangerous because they lack empathy, have limited capacity for unconditional love and are only interested in...
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