Pain and Why you should use it to Guide your Transformation
Last week I had three discovery sessions with sensitive Millennials who were feeling anxious, overwhelmed and slightly depressed. They all had either family members or a therapist suggest to them that they take anti-depressants or anti-anxiety medication. This really pisses me off because not feeling your pain discounts your feelings as relevant and transformative information. I am not a doctor and I don’t claim to be one. That being said, I have been around a good while, helping many clients in pain and I have studied holistic health, the mind and the brain long before it became popular...
Read MorePerfectionism – The Secret Killer Of Creativity and Wealth
What unrealistic expectations will do to your life and business success Entrepreneurs and perfectionism don’t mix. I am so passionate about the topic of perfectionism because I think it is a nasty disease that’s growing as fast as diabetes in the United States and undermining your creativity, success and wealth. Just like diabetes, it can go undetected until there are real (life and business) health problems. When you start thinking that you are broken, that something is wrong with you, that you have bad luck, are not good, smart or worthy enough to have success and live a...
Read MoreHow Valuing Yourself is Magnetizing
Valuing your well-being and your desires is a key component to how others will perceive you. When you don’t take care of yourself mentally, physically, and spiritually others can feel it. When you are depleted, tired, burned out, hungry, overwhelmed, depressed, angry etc. others can feel it. And you wear it even though you try to hide it with fake smiles, fancy clothes, and lies. If others feel that you don’t care for yourself they can’t trust you will care for them. They feel repelled by your lack of self-awareness even though they don’t know why. They just feel something isn’t right...
Read MoreCommit to Happiness with Nitika Chopra
This weeks episode is important. My guest Nitika Chopra is a true testament of fighting for happiness. Struggling with Psoriasis most of her life, Nitika struggled with self image, self hatred and insecurity. Years later she says that her body was her biggest teacher in learning her inner and outer beauty. (Tip: Listening to a podcast in the morning is one of the many ways that can lead you to happiness!) Nitika shares how perseverance has lead her to love herself, show compassion to herself and others and 3 tangible ways to start loving yourself. Learn how Ellen DeGeneres...
Read MoreAre you willing to Risk CHANGE to up-level your life?
After I got off the phone with my daughter Caitlin the other day I found myself reminded of the last time I made a really big change in my life. Knowing that my daughter didn’t have a job, many people kept asking her if she had found a new job yet. When she answered that she didn’t have one yet, the response often was “I would be so nervous to be without a job. Are you afraid you won’t find one soon?” As a result she started thinking that maybe she should be feeling anxious about the situation and so she did. When I decided to leave my husband ten years ago, I had a lot of family,...
Read More#1 Skill to Change Your Life
As I was hiking in the back-country of Santa Barbara among the beautiful wild flowers and majestic mountains, my heart became so full of gratitude that it brought me to tears. This feeling of fulfillment and connection to all lead me to wonder what I could offer in my blog that would be the biggest benefit to you. I asked myself, “What is one skill that made the most difference in creating my life?” The #1 skill that changed my life is learning to manage and master my thoughts and feelings. If you don’t master managing your thoughts and feelings you won’t change anything permanently. It...
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