Are Narcissists Highly Sensitives Gone Bad?
Malignant narcissists: HSPs gone bad? Posted on June 12, 2015 by luckyotter The concept of malignant narcissism and HSP traits coexisting in the same person is a matter that has very little research behind it (I could find nothing at all on Google), so this article is based on my own opinions, gleaned through a combination of my readings and personal observations of the narcissists I have known. My opinion may come as a surprise. In my article A Match Made in Hell: Narcissists and HSPs, I wrote about the tendency for narcissists and HSPs to form trauma-bonds with each other–that’s really...
Read MoreAre You Arrogant to Want Everyone to Like and Love You?
Do you believe every person you date should like and love you, otherwise you think something is wrong with you? Do you go out of your way to make people think good things about you? You don’t rock the boat or speak your opinions to keep the “peace and love”… Are you disappointed when someone doesn’t like and love you, even if you don’t like them? Are You Arrogant to want everyone to like and love you? Are you laughing or in shock? I was amazed when I found out I was unconsciously believing everyone had to love and like me or there was...
Read MoreThe SuperPowers of Highly Sensitive People
I’ve been interviewing women from all over the world who are 25-45 years old. I ask them how they feel about being a highly sensitive person and they are hesitant to answer. In particular, the women who see themselves as up and coming leaders hesitate to proclaim their sensitivity, because of the weak connotations it has represented in the past. But, once I share with them the characteristics as superpowers, they shift their negative perspective and share how their sensitivity has lead them lead today. Strong women leaders, who are highly sensitive, don’t relate and don’t...
Read MoreHow to Set Healthy Boundaries for Highly Sensitive People
I don’t know about you, but as a sensitive child, no one taught me how to create healthy boundaries. And, no one around me modeled healthy boundaries. As an empathic and compassionate child and adult, I would feel people suffering and want to help them feel better and solve their problem. If I helped them, then I wouldn’t have to feel their disappointment, depression, unhappiness, anger, frustration or sadness. I intuitively knew how to make them feel better or solve their problem. If I could just get everyone around me to feel better, I would feel better. And if I got everyone...
Read MoreHow “Good” Will You Allow Your Life To BE?
I’m not the same person I was 15 years ago, because I’ve allowed myself to have a good life. What about you, do you want a really good life? In order to create my good life, I had to change. When I decided to create a really good life, I was living a fear driven life. I didn’t feel supported, good enough, or perfect enough to matter even though I had family and friends who loved me. I buried my feminine (except in the bedroom) because the masculine felt more empowering. My sensitivity made me feel weak. These are just some of the feelings, beliefs and thoughts I had to...
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