Do You Know Your Saboteur?
Everything was comfortable in my world and then I decide to step up my visibility to grow my business. I hired an assistant and PR person to work with me and don’t you know my saboteur came out swinging big time on me. It started with doubting my abilities to be successful and when that didn’t work she got even more personal it brought up my insecurities about my aging body. I started comparing my cellulite body to younger women’s bodies, making me feel frustrated, not good enough (or I’d fixed it) and sad. I was jealous; I want my younger and cellulite free body back. Now,...
Read MoreHow To Deal With A Narcissist
Hi! Did you grow up with a Narcissist Parent? This is a complicated relationship that influences you ability to to be yourself, to have needs and desires, and promotes the behavior of perfectionism. All of which keep you from shining your light, receiving what you need and deserve (includes money) and limits your actions with fears. Until we heal our inner child wounding with the narcissistic parent we will attract other narcissist unconsciously into our lives as friends, partners in business or as spouses because we naturally know how to take really good care of them. Our wounded...
Read MoreTap Away Your Doubts & Fears!
You know when you are making changes in your life and it is feeling really good and then all of a sudden doubt and fears punch you in the stomach, back or chest? ~ Your critical and disappointed voice starts questioning everything you are doing and dreaming. ~ People around you share their unsolicited opinions of why they wouldn’t go where you going. ~ Your ego starts bringing up past experiences and why you promised you wouldn’t put yourself out there again. ~ Your excitement starts to dwindle as you start to self-sabotage your progress. This tapping session is to...
Read MoreMillennials & Money Cafe Starting
When I started using Margaret Lynch’s, Tapping Into Wealth Money Map on myself and my millennial clients I was shocked to see and witness how much our childhood programming influenced our self-esteem and our current financial situation. And I was excited that I had tools to change that negative programming and transform the depressing or harmful results they caused. Our negative thoughts and unworthy feelings about ourselves are tied up with money? What? How could this be? It blew me away to see how much unnecessary suffering was impacting us through our families negative beliefs and...
Read MorePerfectionism Kills Success
What is important to you? I really want to know, so if you feel like sharing I would love to hear from you. Rest and fun are important to me and my partner Jeff, so last week we went to Hawaii. We spent 3 days in Waikiki while Jeff played in a lacrosse tournament and then we headed to Maui for 4 days. While we were on Maui we did a lot of snorkeling, swimming and exploring the island. One day I had the miracle of swimming with a giant turtle. (picture of one below–that is not me diving). I felt like a mermaid in a scared moment. I’m so excited to announce we have a new addition...
Read MoreAre Your Childhood Vows Keeping Your Income Low?
I am feeling so grateful for my life, my connections to others and my life’s work! Today I’m heading to a Brendon Burchard workshop with my girlfriend Kathleen. I am so excited to connect with new friends/collaborators who I’m suppose to meet there and learn some things that I will apply to my life that will launch me to my next level of awesomeness. Then the following week Jeff and I are taking a week’s vacation in Hawaii. I can already feel the water and see myself snorkeling in the beautiful ocean. I’m calling in the dolphins to join me. And romance,...
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