Taking Care of Yourself First is not Easy
It took me a long time to learn that I had to take care of myself first, because I believed it was my job to take care of others. My value and worthiness were wrapped tightly around taking care of others. I noticed that if I took care of those around me by solving their challenges and minimizing their suffering I was needed and no one would abandon me. If I made everyone’s life easier and happier then I would be taken care of and safe. After my parents divorced, my grandmother scowled at me with a stern voice and finger pointing, „You better be a good girl for your mother, so you...
Read MoreWhat Do You Want For YourSelf?
I am a certified ‘Passion Test’ facilitator, one of the first four people Janet and Chris Attwood trained and certified to give “The Passion Test” and workshop. It has proven to be a powerful tool for figuring out what you REALLY want in your life and where you are best served keeping your energy, imagination and actions focused. Many of my clients had opportunities show up the same day or the day after they declared their desire in this test. Others took longer focus over time because of the scope of their desires. They have created non-profits for children in India...
Read MoreAvoiding the ILLUSION of Progress…
Here is a blog post from one of my mentors, Andy Shaw. I recommended his two books “Creating A Bug Free Mind” & “Using A Bug Free Mind.” He is incredible at spotting how we fool ourselves with our thoughts and keep ourselves stuck. I’m sharing this article with you because this is one of the most frequent conversations I have with potential clients. People may think and say to me, “I know this stuff!” to which I usually respond, “Yes, you think you know this stuff, but you are not living it and therefore you really don’t KNOW...
Read MoreAre you Stopping Your Positive Energy Flow?
How frustrating is it to be feeling on top of the world, in the flow of your life, happy and and excited, when all of a sudden you get the feeling that something bad could happen and you start doubting whether or not your happiness and success will last for long. All of a sudden you are worrying, arguing, blaming, criticizing or in pain and suffering? What’s happening is called Upper Limiting and it’s stopping your flow of positive energy. Suddenly some of the below main doubts seep in: You feel flawed You battle loyalty or abandonment issues You are convinced that more...
Read MoreSupercharge Your Income with an Outrageous Goal
How many of you would love to make more money so you could really save, invest and enjoy life? So you can live any way you choose and not settle for less. Did you know that only 31% of the population set financial goals in 2014 (US News) and 99% of those not setting money goals don’t do so because thinking about money is painful to them? According to that same article “about half of those who made a money resolution last year said they are now “better off financially,” compared to just 38 percent of those who didn’t set one.” Based on a Harvard study conducted on...
Read MoreOvercome the Starving Artist Syndrome and Own the Value of Your Gifts
Click the above link for The Starving Artist Syndrome podcast to learn how to override the starving artist syndrome with my guest Jessica Serran. We’ll go through tapping sessions to help you clear emotional blocks around the vow of being invisible and honoring owning your gifts and allowing them to be seen and appreciated by your audience in the world. It is your beliefs about your worthiness, your abilities and the messages that your family and society have projected onto you that keep you in the “Starving Artist/Creative Syndrome.” It has nothing to do with money or...
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