Biggest Block Keeping You Stuck In Your Llife ~ STOP YOUR SUFFERING
Do you have needs? Of course you do, yet a lot of us have made VOWS as children to not ask to have our deepest needs met. Why? Here are three major reasons. 1. We didn’t get our needs of love, shelter, attention, validation, nutrition, comforting, emotional support or safety met. The parents didn’t now how to care for themselves much less anyone else or they may have been a narcissist, drug/alcohol addicts, or have a mentally illness. 2. We didn’t feel safe; we would be humiliated by family or peers or ignored, a family member would become angry or upset when asking something of them, we...
Read MoreThe Gift of Being Highly Sensitive
The Highly Sensitivity Trait can feel like a curse or a brilliant gift depending on how we perceive it and manage our lives. Today I want to share with you how Highly Sensitive People (HSP) positively contribute to humanity and our world. My hope is that if you have been believing that the HS trait weakens you in any way, this post will inspire you to change your thinking and beliefs about yourself and your possibilities. In a 1996 study on Highly Sensitive People it was determined that 15%-20% of the population was highly sensitive. (Read more about it here.) That is 50 million+ people...
Read More3 Blocks That Stop You From Changing Your Life
What I know for sure is you can take an ordinary boring, disappointing, and overwhelming life and turn it into a fulfilling, purposeful, happy, exciting and pleasurable life. You don’t have to suffer and keep having the same challenges in your life day after day. I hear people complaining and moaning about wanting more money, love, fun, time, energy, pleasure…in their lives, but I don’t hear them talking about what their doing to change their circumstances. I was a complainer and out of touch with my true self. I had spent my life sacrificing myself for others when one day...
Read MoreHow to Change Your Current Reality
My parents divorced when I was 4 years old. My dad didn’t pay child support and when I did see him he used money to try and manipulate me. I grew up thinking that I wasn’t worth being supported and loved just being me, I wasn’t good enough. My grandfather (major male influence after the divorce) was a very successful business man and chauvinist. He could have easily taught my mom how to manage and make money but, instead would make her feel ashamed about her ability to manage money and raise three children on her own. My grandfather told me when I was in high...
Read MoreLearn How To Create Healthy Boundaries
Here is an excerpt from Doreen Virtue’s book “Assertiveness for Earth Angels” about creating healthy boundaries for that I believe you will find valuable. Setting clear boundaries will help you manage your life, mind and energy more efficiently, so you will not move into overwhelm or over stimulation as often as you would without the clear boundaries. The link for the book: A boundary is your limit, which no one can overstep or violate. No matter who the other person is or how much you love him or her, your boundary is something that he or she is not allowed to breach. For...
Read MoreWomen Waking Up & Redefining Their Lives!
WOW what a summer! My life has been one adventure after another since May, traveling around the country, redefining the way I do business and live my life, so my life is better aligned to meet my needs and values. The reasons I have been able to have these adventures and all my Queenly pleasures is because I have allowed myself to express my true purpose and nature in the world rather than abandoning them. What is true for me is to play, travel, inspire, love, and help people transform their lives to feel and be more loving. When you are happily being you and asking for what you really...
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