30 Ingredients for a Healthy Relationship
Whether you’re single or married, knowing what a healthy relationship looks like is very useful in finding the right partner for you or spicing up your marriage. I recently gave a relationship workshop and handed out a list of what a healthy relationship could look like. I’ve found most of us want a great relationship, but we really don’t have any idea of what that looks like, other than a romantic Hollywood versions that is unattainable. When you start to have a clearer picture of what it truly takes to have a healthy and loving relationship, you now know where you need...
Read MoreSecrets For Sensitive People To Find Relationships That Work
Secrets For Sensitive People To Find Relationships That Work: Why Emotional Empaths May Stay Lonely Or Alone Adapted from Dr. Judith Orloff’s New York Times Bestseller “Emotional Freedom: Liberate Yourself From Negative Emotions and Transform Your Life” (Three Rivers Press, 2011) Loneliness gets to some more than others. But why it hangs on isn’t always apparent when read by traditional medical eyes. In my practice and workshops I’ve been struck by how many sensitive, empathic people who I call “emotional empaths” come to me, lonely, wanting a romantic partner, yet remaining single...
Read MoreDo You Know You Have These Blocks to LOVE?
Do you view yourself negatively? Do you put everyone before yourself? Do you view yourself negatively? Do you put everyone before yourself? Do you view men negatively? Do you judge yourself and others and compare yourself to others? Do you think women are weak, stuck, or powerless? Believe it or not all these beliefs are your blocks to finding and keeping love Everything in your life revolves around relationships; your relationship with yourself, others, Source/God… and the world. How you choose to see your relationships determines your actual experience of your life. In this...
Read MoreAre Narcissists Highly Sensitives Gone Bad?
Malignant narcissists: HSPs gone bad? Posted on June 12, 2015 by luckyotter The concept of malignant narcissism and HSP traits coexisting in the same person is a matter that has very little research behind it (I could find nothing at all on Google), so this article is based on my own opinions, gleaned through a combination of my readings and personal observations of the narcissists I have known. My opinion may come as a surprise. In my article A Match Made in Hell: Narcissists and HSPs, I wrote about the tendency for narcissists and HSPs to form trauma-bonds with each other–that’s really...
Read MoreEmpathy, A SuperPower Trait of Highly Sensitives
Empathy, is a SuperPower trait of highly sensitive people. Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. As an HSP you pick up on other people’s emotions and pain. This also allows you to pick up on emotions (unseen energy) of the collective conscious. Whether it’s pain or love, you feel it deeply. Being empathic allows you to be more aware of the inner and outer workings of life, so you can see what is not working and find the solution to the problem. You can feel what is around you without seeing it. You are a better thinker and decision maker because...
Read MoreAre You Arrogant to Want Everyone to Like and Love You?
Do you believe every person you date should like and love you, otherwise you think something is wrong with you? Do you go out of your way to make people think good things about you? You don’t rock the boat or speak your opinions to keep the “peace and love”… Are you disappointed when someone doesn’t like and love you, even if you don’t like them? Are You Arrogant to want everyone to like and love you? Are you laughing or in shock? I was amazed when I found out I was unconsciously believing everyone had to love and like me or there was...
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