It is not so much about controlling things in your life, as it is to opening your self up to receiving guidance. You are an extension of source energy and when asked for direct you towards what it is you desire. You have to be willing to ask, receive guidance and then follow through on actions. Say to the Universe: I give you permission to guide me. It is much more knowledgeable and resourceful than your thinking mind. Creating a practice is important because If you’re spinning in your mind or too overwhelmed you won’t be open to receive.