Taking Care of Yourself First is not Easy
It took me a long time to learn that I had to take care of myself first, because I believed it was my job to take care of others. My value and worthiness were wrapped tightly around taking care of others. I noticed that if I took care of those around me by solving their challenges and minimizing their suffering I was needed and no one would abandon me. If I made everyone’s life easier and happier then I would be taken care of and safe. After my parents divorced, my grandmother scowled at me with a stern voice and finger pointing, „You better be a good girl for your mother, so you...
Read MoreAre Your Childhood Vows Keeping Your Income Low?
I am feeling so grateful for my life, my connections to others and my life’s work! Today I’m heading to a Brendon Burchard workshop with my girlfriend Kathleen. I am so excited to connect with new friends/collaborators who I’m suppose to meet there and learn some things that I will apply to my life that will launch me to my next level of awesomeness. Then the following week Jeff and I are taking a week’s vacation in Hawaii. I can already feel the water and see myself snorkeling in the beautiful ocean. I’m calling in the dolphins to join me. And romance,...
Read MoreHeal Your Inner Child Through Your Chakras Tele-class
Heal Your Inner Child Through Your Chakras for Happiness & Prosperity Tele-class Sept 9th, 2014 8 Thursdays, 8:30 EST, 5:30 PST, 1 1/2 hours ~ $597 limited to 10 participants for personal attention To achieve your desires requires you to transform your perception of yourself and your world. Until you achieve that transformation your life won’t change permanently. Are you ruling your life and kingdom or is your inner inner child running it? No matter how much work you do on your branding, lifestyle, in/on your business, improve your wardrobe, and practice positive thinking, if...
Read MoreThe Powerless Vow
Some of us have made a vow (promise) to be powerless as a young child in order to be loyal and fit into our families. I unconsciously made that vow as a very young child, to be like the women in my family’s lineage I had to give my power to the men. In third grade I felt my powerlessness and I didn’t like it. I was fascinated with power, why some had it and others didn’t. I wanted to know how could I have the freedom, money, and power that the men and boys seemed to possess and I didn’t? I started my search for power in the library, checking out a book by Freud...
Read MoreBiggest Block Keeping You Stuck In Your Llife ~ STOP YOUR SUFFERING
Do you have needs? Of course you do, yet a lot of us have made VOWS as children to not ask to have our deepest needs met. Why? Here are three major reasons. 1. We didn’t get our needs of love, shelter, attention, validation, nutrition, comforting, emotional support or safety met. The parents didn’t now how to care for themselves much less anyone else or they may have been a narcissist, drug/alcohol addicts, or have a mentally illness. 2. We didn’t feel safe; we would be humiliated by family or peers or ignored, a family member would become angry or upset when asking something of them, we...
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